Embracing the Routine

Sorry for the delay in blog posts, my faithful readers. I've been on the road as usual giving my sold-out inspirational seminars when I hit a little bump in Kansas and had to take a temporary job at Panda Express.

But I'm solvent again and back on the book tour here in beautiful St. Louis, Missouri. And as soon as they clean up from the tornado damage, I'll be re-scheduling my Find Your Inner Larry seminar. And good news: there are still slots open for late ticket buyers.

My recent foray into the world of shopping mall food court cuisine has left me with a new understanding of the subconscious. For example, during my 10-hour shifts, as I surfed the web between customers, I found the most amazing test online:

http://www.hypnoid.com/psytest2.html

Yes, it's the  Pierley/Redford Dissociative Affect Diagnostic test.

And if you've ever been as frightened by shapes, pulsating colors, and threatening lines as I am, THIS is the test for you.

Let me share my test results:
"Often you are taken advantage of and regarded as simply part of the scenery. You work best when handling the work yourself; you do not appreciate a managerial role and tend to be uncomfortable in that position....Often you find it difficult to speak up about personal anguish or pain, feeling instead that it is something an individual should bear in silence. Tradition is important to you, and you feel a sense of belonging when operating within the constraints of a predictable routine."

So true! Apart from Oprah and O Magazine's quizzes, I've never found anything that so closely "gets" me. Yes, Pierley and Redford (not to be confused with the actor) "get" me, and it feels so good to be got.


Unlike my ex-wife, Christine, who found life in a women's correctional institution "oppressive" and "filled with repressive euphemisms" as she once wrote to me during her incarceration, I do feel a sense of belonging when operating within both constraints and predictable routines.


Daily Affirmation: Be comfortable with the routine constraints that the Universe has in store for each and every one of us.  Like death and taxes: we must embrace constraints because they are inevitable. 

Male Job Enhancement Surgery

Many of you may have noticed, as I did, the recent news that more and more American men are opting for job enhancement surgery, or as it has been dubbed in the media “cosmetic surgery.”

http://www.webmd.com/skin-beauty/news/20110321/cosmetic-surgery-on-the-rise-in-men

To all my fellow brothers in bandages, I salute you!

It takes a brave man to recognize when it’s time to go under the knife, lift the brows, suck the fat out from around our eyes, reshape our noses, tighten the jowls, and stiffen our upper lips.

Sure, some naysayers may call it “vanity.” But they’re wrong.

It’s a competitive world and I want to put my best face forward at all times. Even if that face isn’t the one nature gave me. It’s the one I paid for. Which means it’s even better than the one nature gave me.

Nature didn’t give me my iPhone, my iPad, my iPod nano, or my Blu-Ray Star Wars DVDs either.

And to all those young whippersnappers in IT these days, you may laugh, you may scoff now, but in fifteen years when you’re getting hair plugs and blepharoplasties, remember, Larry told you the Truth first:  it’s a dog eat dog world out there and the dog with the squarest jawline wins.

As Boris Karloff explains in this clip: "You will not remember what I show you now, and yet I shall awaken memories of love and crime..."

 That's exactly how I felt when the bandages started coming off. All those memories of love and crime re-awakened.

Daily Affirmation: Don’t confuse inner beauty and outer beauty. The Universe gave us plastic surgeons so they can tell the difference for us.

My Next Best Life

In hindsight, I now see that it was probably my bad when I didn't tell my wife (now ex-wife) that I was going to get a facelift and used our mortgage money as a down payment for my surgery.

But hindsight is overrated.

Why look back, when we can look forward?

That's the important life lesson I learned from Life After Life, the amazing book by Raymond A. Moody, Jr., that scientifically proves that there IS life after death. Or as he puts it more poetically, "life after life."

I personally feel that in my next life, I will continue to be a healer. But sometimes I am curious as to whether I will be a humanoid healer on this planet or some kind of spiritual time traveler or even a life-bringing cosmic dust that travels the universe, like the Millennium Falcon, spreading my seed, so to speak, into the fertile but not yet conscious primordial seas of distant planets.

In my book, FYIL: Find Your Inner Larry, I explain how these exercises in future-sight can help you, too, to find your Inner Larry and live your best lives, now and in the future.

Daily Affirmation: Don't worry about all the mistakes you made in the past. You'll have plenty of time to make more in the future.

Yub Nub and Earthly Reality

Some of you may have noticed that my daily affirmations do not appear every day, which is how "daily" is stereotypically defined.

"dai•ly adj. done, happening, or published every (week)day."


Well, that's the literalists at the Webster's New World Dictionary for you.

But where does the concept of "day" really come from? The Gregorian calendar. And what standard of measure were the good monks using? The time it takes for the Earth to move around the Sun.

So believe it or not, but we're still measuring our DAYS by mere Earthly standards rather than by the standards of the Universe.

And as everyone who has read my book FYIL: Find Your Inner Larry knows, in order to succeed we must transcend the gravity of our Earth-bound standards that would tie us to the ground. Instead we must release our Inner Larry to meet his Universal Potential™.

I discuss my trademarked conceptualization of Universal Potential™ in my book, but I can explain a little bit here. Think of unicorns in virgin forests ridden by nymphs. If you can think of it, it exists. Only your skepticism prevents you from seeing your own reality.

I'll give you an example of the reverse of Universal Potential™. George Lucas originally conceived of an entire planet of Wookiees for Revenge of the Jedi. But then he began to doubt himself. A planet of seven-foot-tall men in ape suits? How expensive will that be? And all the haters started up their "Jedis shouldn't want 'revenge'" campaign, and before you can shed a single tear, we were given Endor, the Ewoks, the Ewok theme song "Yub Nub", and Episode VI: Return of the Jedi. (I refuse to speak of the re-mastered ending of Return of the Jedi. Refuse!)

Watch and you will see that George Lucas's Universal Potential™ was not manifested. Not by far. And later tinkering didn't help.

So if Earthly reality can ground a giant like Lucas, think of the damage it can do to everyone else.

Daily Affirmation: Gravity, I don't need you to bring me down. I am anchored by nothing but my own imagination.

Oscar Acceptance Speeches and the Universe

The Oscars have come and gone. Another annual rite of spring. As Amy Adams said to Ryan Seacrest on the red carpet, "I'm more nervous this year. I think it's because I'm more present."



I get that, Amy. I do. I'm more present this year than I ever have been, and not just because I'm no longer on the pain meds.


As I was preparing for my Find Your Inner Larry: Vitamins for the Soul presentation at the lovely Ramada Inn here in North Platte, Nebraska, I found myself drawn to the Academy Awards as they played on the TV set in my motel room.


Who doesn't love all those inspirational acceptance speeches?

In fact, I was thinking to myself, should Find Your Inner Larry ever become a movie, I wouldn't mind that Colin Firth fellow playing me. He doesn't have my looks, but he carries himself with the kind of inner dignity that I feel would be appropriate. A man like that can convey the pain, the depression, the self-doubt, the terrible darkness, the loss, the loneliness, the discipline that comes with celibacy, and of course the ultimate triumphant quality of my life.

(In this photo, Colin Firth is actually almost a dead ringer for me, if you ignore the swelling and bruising on my face at the moment.)

And as everyone who's read my book knows, the best way to make something happen is to simply say it out loud so the Universe can hear and say, Yes, Larry! You betcha!

So, Universe, here are my Oscar acceptance speeches, prepared in advance, so that when the time comes, I'll be ready.

(For best adapted screenplay by me): I'd like to thank all my fans across the country who share their stories about how I've touched their lives. I especially appreciate the inmates across the country who write me so frequently and in such moving detail. I won't be able to answer your letters now that I'm famous, but I still appreciate you.

(For best actor; I'll let Colin read the speech, but I'll write it in advance for him. Poor fellow seems a little flustered on his feet): I'd like to thank Larry Walters for helping me to Find My Inner Larry. I used to have self-doubts, I stuttered, I couldn't dance. Now because of Larry, I'm winning this second Oscar. Thanks, Larry. Couldn't have done it without you and the Universe. Frankly I don't know how I ever won the first one without you.

(Aww. He really is a great guy, isn't he?)

(For best picture, I assume the producer Harvey Weinstein will be giving this one): I'd like to thank the Universe. We have a direct line. And thank you, Larry. You've made me a better human being.


Daily Affirmation: I'm more nervous this year because I'm more present.

Cracked Eggs and Psychosynthesis

I'd like to share a little something I found on Twitter today.  @AncientProverbs posted this profound, ancient Chinese proverb: "Flies never visit an egg that has no crack."

Cool beans!

I don't really know what it meant to the ancient Chinese, but I can tell you what it means to me. You may have noticed that I have a profile picture on my Twitter feed (@InnerLarry) at last. No, it's not me, as I'm still waiting for the bruising and swelling from my face lift to go down.

It is, however, the psychosynthesis egg diagram, revealing all the states of our consciousness and where they would be located within us if we were eggs.

Color version of the psychosynthesis egg diagram


Psychosynthesis, developed by the Italian psychiatrist Roberto Assagioli, formulated the concept of "Superconsciousness" in which we aspire to the sublime. And suppressing these impulses to aspire is even more dangerous to ourselves than repressing our other, more animalistic urges. I don't pretend to be a psychiatrist, but I am a superman when it comes to repression!

Which is why I explained to my (former) wife that I had to remain celibate as I sought my best, sublime life.

"What are you talking about? Roberto Assagioli wasn't celibate! And he invented this stuff," she said.

Okay, she's good with Google, I'll grant my ex-wife that, but she missed the point entirely.

Because I'm not Roberto Assagioli. I'm Larry, and I'm all about finding my Inner Larry, which is also like finding my Superconsciousness.

I'll explain more about Finding Your Inner Larry in the days and months and years to come. But for today, I wanted to introduce you to the concept of eggs, superconsciousness and cracking.

Daily Affirmation: An uncracked egg doesn't attract flies. But you can't make an omelette without cracking a few eggs. Thankfully the Universe provides an answer to this conundrum: Eat that omelette while it's hot and fresh and before the flies can get it.


BTW, you can follow me on Twitter @InnerLarry. Contrary to some rumors out there, you don't have to be a pornbot or spam to follow @InnerLarry!

Testimonial: 80s Supermodel Azziah

Once again, I'm happy to receive another fan letter from a reader of FYIL: Find Your Inner Larry.

This one kind of speaks for itself. All I can add is that I'm always honored to be of service to my fellow Minions of the Universe.

Larry Dear,

Let me tell you how much I’ve enjoyed the ARC I received of your darling book Find Your Inner Larry.

I lost my inner Larry somewhere between cab stops in the East Village. Just kidding.

Here goes. I am Azziah. You no doubt remember me from the 80s when I was part of the one-named gaggle of  supermodels, along with Linda and Claudia and Christy and Naomi, who didn’t get out of bed for less than $10,000.

Well, I made some bad investments. M-A-D-O-F-F.  I didn’t pay as close attention to my portfolio as I should have. I had some unfortunate addictions.

Then I woke up one morning and I was, like, it’s the 21st effin century? Are you kidding me? And what is THAT on the radio? And who are these fetuses in the clubs these days?

I felt empty inside, Larry darling. The eggwhites and grapefruit weren’t FYILing me as they had in the past.

Then in group, someone passed me a copy of Find Your Inner Larry. And I started reading. And that’s not something that comes naturally, believe me.

But I couldn’t put it down. Your face lift pain? The downsizing? God. Been there. Done that.

Larry dearest, you get it. And I get you. And you are right: the Universe owes us big time.

Now I don’t feel so empty. I don’t need the alcohol or the drugs (all legitimate prescriptions, mind you) anymore. I know that I have all that I need inside me.

I am my own Inner Larry. And don't think of that in a dirty way, naughty boy!

XOXO,

Azziah

 

Wow! What did I tell you? It’s fan mail like this that keeps me on the road, hopping on the bus, day after day after day, knowing that I have the gift to help others.

Daily Affirmation: The Universe owes us our best lives. And if you know anything about collection agencies, they don’t give up. Be your own collection agency!